Last week, I received a letter from a reader. She wrote that her daughter was being harassed by an eBay seller.

"My daughter ordered an item on eBay from [email address omitted by editor]. She emailed this woman as to when the item was shipped and has received nasty emails since. (We still have not received the item.) Is there anything we can do about this person? ... My daughter also contacted another person who left negative feedback and that person has also been receiving harassing emails a year later. Please help us we just started using eBay a few months ago, but now have met "the stalker at ebay" Thanks!"

I contacted eBay to find out what members should do if they find themselves being harassed by another eBay member. Kevin Pursglove told me that if the emails contain the threat of physical harm, the user should contact eBay's Safe Harbor and the police. eBay will suspend such members. But if the emails do not break the law by threatening physical harm, there is nothing eBay can do. Emails are private communications between members, Pursglove said, and eBay will not interfere.

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